Rome- Day 1

Everyday I wake up and say...today will be the day that I find some spare time to begin blogging about Italy. I have no clue where my time goes, but my life is filled with many obligations lately, some work, some fun. Either way I am just determined to find some time everyday to blog a bit about my trip. It will be a fun trip down memory lane months from now when I need a little pick me up.

Rome. Honestly, what can be the best way to describe this city. It is beautiful, it is chaotic, it is packed to the gills with tourists from all parts of the world and it was such a wonderful place to begin our vacation. Kent and I left Seattle at 8am on a Tuesday and we arrived in Rome at 8am on Wednesday. The flight was not terrible, but nothing I would like to re-live any time soon. The online movies were children's features...honestly; Madagascar II and some movie with the cute girl from Little Miss Sunshine. I watched them because I was trapped and tired of looking at my guidebooks and rechecking my purse that our passports were in there. Years ago I left my purse on the floor of the train station in Berlin...my purse that contained all my money, passport etc. I did get it back, but that was a very terrifying hour of my life that I did not want to relive (thankfully we had no experiences like this in Italy). Kent and I arrived feeling very tired, hot, dirty but so excited. To save money we took a train from the airport to the main train station in downtown Rome, Termini Station. I was proud of our thriftiness with money as a taxi was around $75.00 USD. Once we arrived in the train station we were dropped in the middle of more chaos and unexpected bumping around then we expected. We had been warned repeatedly of the pick-pockets in Italy and especially this station. We had one shady guy following us, but honestly, he didn't have a chance.

Kent and I decided that since the train from the airport was so easy that we were going to save even more money and take a public bus to our B & B. I knew the bus number and it seemed like it was pretty simple with the directions I had printed off of the website. We walked out of the train station and right across the street was our bus #70. This seemed like a good sign and with two tickets in our possession, along with 3 heavy bags, we boarded the bus, along with everyone else. Packed to the gills we looked at each other and I know my mind was thinking, "what in the hell are we doing on this bus?" We started off and I did not have a seat and was forced to straddle my luggage and hold on to the disgusting metal bars. All I thought about was staph and fecal matter (too many years in a dermatology practice). We started moving through the city and something hit both of us...what stop do we get off at? I did my best to scan the directions again and realized this was actually vague. We did our best to look at the stops each time the bus stopped and more people piled on, but we realized they actually weren't marked. Fear of being trapped forever on this bus set in and I had the balls to ask this elderly woman if she knew the area of town our B & B was in. She spoke no English. Hmm...I started looking like those contestants in The Amazing Race who just point to a map and smile, hoping someone will get the hint that we are lost. God must have been on our side as literally a priest on the bus pointed to a church up ahead and told us to get off there. I did my best to understand his instructions and we jumped off the bus and just took a couple of deep breaths. Nothing was awful about the area, it was actually very nice, we just started feeling jet lag, serious jet lag. For the next 45 minutes we criss-crossed the cobblestone streets and finally stumbled upon our B & B. It was a mere 5 minutes from the bus stop, but the streets are so insanely set up that we just could not find it.

I was so excited to finally find our home base for the next few days. We met Francesco and he helped us with our luggage. Our B & B in Rome was in a fabulous location, the Piazza Navona.




This piazza was so difficult to photograph as it was impossible to get it all in. It was a beautiful open area that had artists, shops, restaurants and amazing architecture in a single square. It was a truly central location for us to be in.



The B&B in Rome was by far the worst place we stayed at in Italy. Rome is so expensive and I did hours of research on Trip Advisor etc and this place had very good reviews. I do understand the reviews as the location was worth the craziness of the place. I did not take a picture as there was really nothing to photograph. I'm still glad we stayed in this location though because we discovered some fabulous shops and food that we may not have found.

After dropping our bags off we went and looked for somewhere to eat. We found a small place and ordered a few items and were pleasantly surprised that the prices were not as bad as we had been told. I ordered a delicious roman artichoke and realized a few days later I was eating it completely wrong. The house wine was perfect and we sat and soaked in the sunshine. After eating we went back to our room to change, shower etc and ended up taking a 3 hour nap. I tried so hard to stay awake, but I just couldn't do it. I'm so glad we did this though because it did help us wake up for dinner. We were still tired and thought we would try out a restaurant around the corner from our B&B. We arrived at around 9:30 and luckily they had a seat. It took some understanding and hand signals for a few minutes to figure things out, but we had a crazy delicious meal. Kent discovered fresh mozzarella and prosciutto and I realized my trick of having salad and a small dish was not going to work out. The salad is served at the end of the meal and the pasta is too good to pass up. We sat and marveled at people arriving at 11pm to order a spread that would put any major competitive eater in the states to shame. Oh..and they were all THIN and fabulously dressed. I sat there with my Rick Steves guide to Italy Fashion...khaki's, simple non wrinkled top and comfortable shoes (IE- fancy tennis shoes that were gray, not white). Kent and I realized quickly that taking fashion advice from a 50+ year old man may not be in our favor. Oh well! The comfy clothes were a must and I just did my best to have fabulous hair and makeup!

After dinner we walked around and found a quaint wine bar and sat outside. This wine bar was in a very small square that appeared to be the hangout of the Romeo's of Rome. I loved watching the flirting, the serious making out and the ladies prance around the cobble stoned walkways in 4" heels. It was fabulous and such a great way to end our first night in Rome. We headed home around 1am and slept like babies. We had a big day ahead of us...we were going to the colloseum and palantine hill.

Yes, I can hold

Have you ever found yourself calling a company, possibly Quest, MSN or even your local power company and you are instantly put on hold to some sort of soft jazz music? I feel like someone called Kent and I a few weeks ago and placed us on hold. Man I hate holding steady; not moving in any direction. Kent and I have been working on a refi of our triplex and we are in an awful holding pattern. We don't know the when or how or what and it is growing old. The opportunity that is presented before us is just too great to pass up. The amount of work to get there though is enough to want to give up. It is like a carrot being dangled before our eyes (or more like a fat piece of chocolate cake) and we just can't quite reach it. If the refi goes through our flexibility financially will improve dramatically and new doors will open up quickly. If it doesn't happen we will need to completely change our thoughts and move on to plan B, C and down the rest of the chain. We have wanted to move this summer and it is difficult not knowing where we are headed.

The other holding pattern I am faced with is this whole trying to get pregnant thing. I've been "waiting" for my period, or business as I call it, to come. I'm quite bitchy and bloated so it should be here any day now. I'm like a hostage by my own body and this looks like it will be a very long road of negotiations, drugging and coaxing. On Tuesday night I found myself lying on a bed in a Naturopath's office with many needles all over my body. I was told that I was "damp" and that we will be able to work out those hormonal imbalances I have. The acupuncture was not painful. The needles in my forearms sent shocks up my entire arm that felt as if I hit my funny bone. The one the was inserted at the top of my head instantly made me not be able to feel my neck. I was lying down on that table, unable to feel like I could move, and I felt a tear slowly move down my face. Anxiety, fear, sadness etc were erupting within me and I just had to lie there and think of wonderful and beautiful things. I'm trying to remind myself of why I am going to go through these things. I love kids, I always have. I love my husband and I can't wait to have a family with him. I need to find a stronger place within myself who will be able to handle the weekly acupuncture, the counting of days to ovulate and the sadness that will come when my period shows up. This will be my life for awhile. I will be on hold and not sure what my next move should be as everything is sort of based around where I will live and when I will get pregnant. Maybe it is good that I am forced to lie still for awhile. I will have more time to do my photoalbums, work in my yard, read and learn some new recipes. Plus I must get on my blogging about Italy before I forget everything!!!



This picture was taken from our balcony in Positano, Italy. Positano is located on the Amalfi coast and it was so beautiful. This will be my new image to focus on when my emotions get the best of me.

Hello Again...Hello

Where has the time gone? Amazingly this week-end is Memorial Day Week-end, the official kick start of summer. I couldn't be more excited. Last summer was so busy, but fabulous, with our wedding that I truly felt like we did not have a summer. We were bombarded with to-do lists, scavenging for money and time and exhausted. As this summer was approaching I vowed that we would have more lazy days, more outings in nature and more time to do anything we like.

What really made me feel like "summer" was our time in Italy. I could blog for days, and I will definitely do some recaps of places, events and drama. What struck me was the beautiful flowers everywhere. Pots, flower beds and hanging from small windowsill boxes. It was so bright, so lively. This does describe the flowers, but it also describes the country. I loved it. I could do without the smoking and the crowds of school kids (more on that to come later). There is an energy that is very addictive, one that I hoped I could bottle and bring home for us. I loved the tables of families dining on huge volumes of food in the most stylish of clothes. Dining at 10pm, the start of their mealtime. Playing with babies and showering toddlers with attention and teaching them the English language at very early ages. When women are out together in a pair or small group, they lock arms as they stroll the city streets. Cheek to cheek kisses are dished out by the 100's. This sort of "love" that the people have for one another was very refreshing. Seattle does not have this love. It could be the rain, the drizzle, the constant grey sky. It is annoying though. I personally have become that weird lady that wishes people a good day on the elevator. Do we not all need to hear this once in awhile? These are some of the beautiful things I learned from the people of Italy.



This was one of the best days we had in Italy. I found a tour based out of Florence that had us rent these awesome Fiat 500's. The owner of the tour was in front of us and she used walkie talkie radios and gave us a tour of Florence, while Kent was driving this crazy little car. We drove through Tuscany and to a villa where we had a wine and cheese tasting. It was awesome. Plus the locals were literally applauding and yelling with cheer when they saw the convoy of us.


In our amazing adventure we went to Rome, Siena, Florence, Venice, Positano (we took the night train) and back to Rome. We did the country and we did it well. More to come!

Hmmm

I love starting on a positive note and scouring really, really fabulous tickets to the U2 show in Vancouver was a fabulous way to start my day. As the day progressed I then found myself having a physical and being told I am in good health and that losing more weight is not impossible. Later that evening I went to my first meet and greet for the Junior League. I have been wanting to find a group I could join and last night I felt like it could be a good match for me. I rarely do things completely on my own, but I went to the meet and greet and it was just fine. It is important that I get out there and meet new people and become more confident in myself as a person.

Here's what is really on my mind. My period. Not the best conversation piece but I am really frustrated. Having a hormone problem really puts everything in wack with my cycle. The last two cycles have been good, but this one has disappeared. I even begged Kent to go to the store this morning and get me a pregnancy test. It was negative, I felt like it would be, but when your "business" is a no-show you start to wonder. I am going to go to Italy and enjoy my trip and when I get back I guess it will need to be game on with the fertility. My PCP wants to start me on a round of drugs; something I was hoping I wouldn't need. I know it will all work out, it is just a bit annoying and stressful at times.

U2 part deux

On Wednesday I will be able to purchase, or attempt to purchase tickets to the U2 show in Vancouver BC. I really have loved this band since 1987. I'm not loving how difficult and ridiculous it is becoming to see them live. I am a fan club member with a presale code and even that will not ensure that I get a ticket for Kent and I. My first U2 show I sat behind the stage, but it was still amazing. As the ticket prices increase and the demand is so difficult you start to expect a bit more than just a rock and roll show. I actually found myself debating if I should purchase the VIP seats at a mere $515.00 per ticket. Not only will I get a ticket, but I will get a beer and wine pre-funk party with all of the other posers who took the easy road out and bought their way into the show. I really, really want to see them, but for $1030.00, the cost of gas, hotel and souvenirs....I'm going to really have to think about it. I've thought about it and hell no. I keep thinking I will be fortunate enough to get tickets and I will practice "the secret" which really has been working quite well.

Friday night Kent and I did enjoy happy hour, but it was not so happy feeling the next day. I splurged and had wine, cheese, bread etc. My body has not had this in quite some time so I was basically sick as a dog..a true dog. I know better, yet I don't always do better. We did go and buy me a few pairs of pants at Anne Taylor and I did have to by a size 14 "curvy" but I was glad to find myself back into those pants. This frustrating body of mine is going to realize that we have a ways to go still, but at least we are moving in the right direction. We have two weeks until Italy so I am going to do my best to push it and stay focused.

TGIF

My TGIF posts are to be about what I am grateful for, not for the common phrase describing the joy that the week-end is near. I'm breaking this rule today as I am grateful that today actually is Friday. It has been a long week at work as I am preparing to be gone for almost 3 weeks. Many to-do lists and thinking of "what ifs" to help educate the staff before I leave.

Today as I was getting ready I had a vision of myself sitting at a bar with my husband for happy hour...I'd like to think all of my hours are happy when I am with my husband, but discounted drinks and fun food...that's a happy hour, and something I rarely enjoy. The happy hour time slot of the typical 4-6 or 5-7pm just doesn't usually work for me. Well it is 5:26pm and I am just waiting for Kent to show up at work with the requested jacket and pants I'd like to wear tonight and my lipstick case as it was left behind in the morning shuffle. I gave my hair a shake, had an altoid and we will soon be off to have a spirit and a little nosh to embrace the week-ends arrival. I have given up sweets, carbs, alcohol as I am trying to lose weight...tonight though I think I will forgo these goals and embrace my body as it is to partake in that joy of the happy hour.

Disappointment

Seems to be everywhere; people disappointed with the economy, with Obama, with the raising costs of goods and the decline in wages. I have found myself recently telling my husband I wasn't upset with him; I was disappointed. Then yesterday I had the disappointed tag line thrown at me by my trainer because I did not sign up for bootcamp.

I'm starting to mature and realize that on a daily basis I will probably disappoint someone. Most of the time it is unintentional or probably unknown to me. I am such a people pleaser. My entire life I have been the one to put out fires and find a way for everyone to meld together and make it to the end in one piece. I did not like that little ping I had when my trainer said she was disappointed in my choice of not taking care of myself. I'm not choosing to let my health decline, I'm choosing to be in charge of my own health, at my pace and my time. 5:30am just does not work for me. Getting up at 4:45am to get to a 5:30am class is torture on both myself and Kent. I also have been so trapped and rely on other people to "make me exercise." It is time that I am the one in charge of the decisions. People will still love me if I disappoint them, so I will not be uneasy about my behaviors.

I keep thinking about my trip to Italy, which we leave for in 3 weeks. I have felt guilty about going lately. People are getting laid off and Kent and I are not flush with money. I know though that this is just the time to go. We want to start trying to get pregnant soon and when will we have the luxury of taking 17 days together when kids are involved? I'm sure Suzi Orman would be disappointed in our choice of going as well. Frankly I think Suzi can go and buy another jacket and Kent and I will celebrate the fact that we are healthy, alive and botching the Italian language as we travel the country.