It can't be...

Is it honestly a few days away from Thanksgiving and 1 month exactly from Christmas? It seems so hard to believe. In years past there was more enthusiasm for the holidays, but due to the sliding economy, things have changed. The commercialism of the holidays is different this year simply because people are barely able to make their house payment, let alone fulfill a Christmas wish list. It is seeming to me that because the holiday gifts are unable to be purchased, the holidays are feeling like just another day. I'm not hearing of lavish parties, the "tickle me elmo of this holiday" or any true enthusiasm regarding the upcoming days. These are merely what I have noticed but the more I discuss it with others, the more I realize that I am on the same page as many. I personally enjoy the holidays for many reasons, not just for what is under the tree. Something in particular is the kindness and warmth that can come from complete strangers. It could be a warm smile in the elevator and good wishes by a stranger. It can be heartfelt and rewarding, like adopting a family in need and bringing them some holiday joy.

Kent and I have decided that since we had such a generous, almost glutinous year filled with travel and our wedding we were going to forgo the multiple presents and buy 1 nice piece of art. Our budget is also feeling very stretched, like most people, so I have been scanning the papers for fun, free activities that we can participate in and get the feeling of the holidays back into our spirits. We are looking forward to the viewing of the holiday ships, riding the carousel at Westlake Center and this year I think we are going ice skating. Kent is generally a trouper and just agrees to anything I usually want to do. We already have our decorating day in place, I am planning on sending out holiday cards, making very small gifts for co-workers and neighbors. I am also going to really remember all of the good that is in the holidays, the unity it brings forth in many communities. Kent and I do not practice any religion on an ongoing basis, but I really use to love going to church during the holidays and singing. We have tickets this year to see the Seattle Men's Chorus again and I can't wait. I use to love to sing, even though I have a horrible voice. This holiday I think my gift to those around me will be a little pep in my step and a bit of cheer. As Charlotte sang to Wilbur , "Chin up, chin up / Everybody loves a happy face / Wear it, share it / It'll brighten up the darkest place / Twinkle, sparkle / Let a little sunshine in / You'll be on the right side, looking at the bright side / Up with your chinny-chin-chin, chin up!